//For a friend//

朋友之间的利用有底限，朋友互相的扶持无极限

there is only so much you can help someone,
the rest is up to them to figure it out.

unlike science or maths, there are many things in life with grey areas.
or should i say, in imbalance.
what is friendship?
the extent which you are willing to go for a friend and the extent your friend is willing to go for you, is definitely different in the eyes of both you and your friend.
some people befriend others with just a few words.
others do not consider you a friend unless you have been through much with them.
some people pay much consideration and tolerance towards their friends
while others go all out to take advantage of their friends.

sometimes, we ought to protect our own interest if the need arise.
it's better to say certain things outright than harbour unhappiness in your heart,
unless you can wholeheartedly accept them, but being human, it's difficult.
when the things that you do for a friend becomes a sword that cuts backwards,
you need to stop hurting yourself.
the stronger she is, the weaker you'll seem.
unless you have the strong mentality to counter it,
it's better to back off for the time being.

It's time to regain your confidence.
So that you will emerge stronger in your mindset.

Life is like a rat race; we all run in different paths.
if you happen to run in the same path as someone else,
treat it like a boardgame.
There is more than 1 way to win,
if you are willing, there can be no clash of interest
and nobody knows for sure who will win,
until the final piece is in place.