//the world looks clearer//

didn't realised i have been living with astigmatism for so long.
everything looks sharper now haha.

// need some space //

sometimes i can't stand it anymore.
parental love and concern are supposed to be a good thing but i'm suffocating from an overdose.

why must my every word, every expression be scrutinised?
why must the culprit of my slight impatience and frustration be due to work?
why must i always clarify for the thousandth time that i did not have a 'rough' day at work?
why must i explain the reason, in addition to reporting whom i'm with for dinner? (old buddies don't need a reason to meet up, do they?)

i need to limit eating out because outside food are unhealthy.
i am not supposed to use my laptop inside the room due to 'radiation fears'

i get your point, but can't you see mine too?
can't you view the world in my perspective?
how can i keep in touch with my good friends if i don't meet them?
how can i concentrate on doing my stuff in the living room when the TV is on? (i'm seriously not trying to hide anything, whatever i'm doing on the Internet)

Every 'abnormal' move of mine yield some suspicions.
Every sneeze of mine confirm your suspicions that i'm down with flu.

Maybe in your eyes, I just so mentally immature and physically weak that my every action warrants your attention.

Ok, some people might think that I'm unfilial to think this way and also take my parents for granted.
So be it, I couldn't care less.

//a finding //

conclusion: working adults experience more serious monday blues than students, especially for those who just stepped into the working world.

as most students would have experienced by now, time often pass by faster when we are in the lab doing experiments than when we are in lecture theatres listening to some lecturer's boring drone.
same for work, time actually passes by quicker when there are countless things to handle or issues to look into than when things are going on smoothly as planned.
And, yes, all we people want is for time to pass by faster.
To be exact, the 'time' refers to the number of hours we are obligated to fulfil our responsibility as a student or as a worker.
Conversely, if the above-mentioned 'time' seems shorter, our free time or leisure time would seem to be longer.
Ultimately, it boils down to making the best of the situation.

Unfortunately, though, It's still hard to beat the blues.
I'm neither a workaholic nor a go-getter.
In fact, I like to slack...
in my free time, yes. Working hours, no, i don't.

Maybe I'm just too uptight.
Maybe I should relax a little.

Looking forward to a boring and uneventful week(s) ahead.
How long will it I last?
There must be something for me, isn't it?

//looking for love cuz it needs to look for you//

很多人都会问我想要找怎么样的男朋友。
要多高？要帅吗？要有钱吗？要运动型的吗？
要多话的吗？要会照顾人的吗？
我就会敷衍的回答：要特别的人。
其实，我的心里会在想：难道人，就只能归类于他的外表，他的性格吗？
假如我开出 XX, XX, XX 的条件，而你们，我亲爱的朋友，如果真的帮我找到一个俱备以上所有条件的人。。。难道就一定会在一起？
对我而言，那是不可能的。

可能我头脑简单，思想幼稚，
但我仍相信爱情是一种遇见，找不着，也安排不了。
其实我奢望的，并不是 XX, XX 又XX 的人，而是一段纯真的爱情。
会那么想，有可能是偶象剧看多了，被影响到。
有可能在现实中，根本没有这种东西。

所以，我所谓的特别，很难解释。。。
有可能那个人对别人来说是很普通，但在我眼中会是特别的。
如果我一直都碰不到这样的一个人，那我宁可谁都不要。

//emotions are just culprits//

getting all woke up and emotional over small little things isn't worth it.
i have a perfect example at home.
amicable atmosphere ruined, trust shattered.
i must treat it as a lesson learned.
much as i dun trust people easily, sometimes you just gotta give people benefit of the doubt.
especially if it's your own daughter who have never lied to you.
there is nothing at all that I can do if there's no trust..even after nearly 23 years.
in the past i might get emotionally charged too.
but after so many years, countless readings, i have sort of 'seen the light' and am now much more logical.
arguing with someone in the heat of the moment is such an idiotic thing to do.
i will never do such a thing, if ever.
the bomb will be exploded instead of being defused.
if emotions are the culprits, logic is akin to the prosecutor.

//release//

i think i'm a great pretender.
ok maybe not.
皮在笑，心在泣。

a sudden realisation that many things in this world is out of one's control.
i'm at a loss.
how should i behave and act in front of others?
it wasn't so complicated last time.

纯真。。。根本不存在现实里！
我好想躲进自己虚拟的世界里，永远都不想回到现实。
因为大人的世界原来那么可怕。

the wall between me and the outside world is getting thicker.
i don't want to get out.
just let me stay in my own world.
my innocent world.
i hate to be vulnerable to outer influences.

sometimes i just don't know why i'm fretting over minor things.
but these minor things make me cringe.
either i need to delete them from my memory or accept them as it is.

maybe i should try to accept people as they are.
i'm such a greenhorn, have never seen many different types of people.
once i accept this fact, maybe it wouldn't hurt that much,
maybe if i let go of those worthless principles.
i can start to breathe once more.

// A good start is half the battle won? //

Sometimes I question myself, is the path that i'm taking correct?
A good starting point?

I believe many fresh grads will ask themselves these same questions.

Some people do plan ahead about where they want to start learning, how they want to progress etc.

Not for me, I think I am just too lazy, taking whatever that comes.
What's the point of evaluating my decisions again?
What's the point of doubting when you are already 'in it'?

When life gives me lemons, I can only make lemonade.
But maybe other people would make lemon cakes, pies and more.

Can anyone get tired without doing anything constructive?
*Raise Hands*
Yes, me.

This routine causing me fatigue.

I think too much when I don't have to.
I can't think when I have to.

Many a times in life, a tough choice has to be made between leading the life you want and leading the life you should.
From major decisions like choosing a career to minor ones like deciding whether to snack at night.
An engineering student should find a job as an engineer right?
An engineer should be logical and have common sense, right?

For major stuff, I usually follow the mind whereas for minor ones, the heart rules.
I wonder if I am doing it right.

Actually, everything probably boils down to striking a balance.
Yet it is difficult because the middle line is practically invisible.

Everyone has a metre rule; the 50cm mark is defined by oneself.
Yet, to be acceptable, yours have to be within the range defined by the majority.

// the same old brand new thing: learning //

How ironic it seems.
After all, haven't I been learning in school?
Realisation dawned on me how different it is, learning in school and at work.
Hence, it's time for me to learn how to learn.

The first foray into working life is marked by a period of adjustment.
Baby steps like adjusting the body clock to wake up at 6, changing mindsets about learning, testing the waters when communicating with others.
How should i start learning?
Monkey see monkey do?
Tag along like an obedient puppy?
Fire questions like a buzzing mosquito?
I guess, most things in life require striking a balance.
For now, well I'm pretty much like a headless housefly.

is it impossible to avoid stereotyping?
oh wells, the human mind is programmed to take the shortest route to reach an answer.
people simply love judging others using the least bit of truth.

insecure, unsure, confused.
what's the role i am supposed to play?
am i prepared for it?

whatever it is, whatever it takes, i need to prove that i did not make a wrong decision.
scorpios care alot about pride.
we do not like to be told that we are wrong.
even if we realise something is a mistake, we insist on going ahead.
On full steam.

TGIF!
it isn't fun switching from waking up at 11 to waking up at 6.
the Zzz bug will leach on you for the whole day.
zombie-like by 3pm.

i am down with a syndome known as..
social awkwardness.
too many faces i can't capture their names.

many factors working against me.
all i can do is to perservere.

on a sidenote,
the world is evolving too fast, too furious.
manufacturing may be phased out earlier than predicted.
prospects ahead are diminishing.
sigh.

人们常说，休息是为了走更远的路。
没错，以往读书的时间是长，未来打工的日子应该会更长。

机会来了， 如果不把握，它就换个主人。
但如果你相信，它总会回来。
其实等待也是一件美好的事，
也许下一次的遇到会更好。

//time flies but memories remain //

as convocation signals the end of student life, it's time for some sort of reflection.
some people say that the start of working life is considered the start of adult life.
it's time to come out of your parents' shadows, to create your own future and to lead independent lives.

but who's to say that student life is easy?
in fact, life as a student was full of ups and downs too.
perhaps, this is just as how life is supposed to unfold, one would face challenges of higher and higher difficulty.
overcome them, and you'll procced on, emerging stronger in mentality.
succumb to them, and you'll be stuck in a rut.

in primary school, i've always thought my teachers to be too strict and gave us too many homework.
Life, to me at that point in time, was bitter because I had to rush homework everyday.

in secondary school, life was tough too, due to the competitive nature of my classmates and the constant struggle to handle 8 subjects, not forgetting cca participation.

in jc, I thought, having many homework to complete was nothing compared to the bitterness of not performing up to standards.
So what if everyone else believed i had to potential to do well?
i never did well and never believed that i could.
Furthermore, having competitive classmates was nothing compared to having uncooperative project work mates who hated each other.
I never thought i would survive through A levels and pw but eventually i did.

in uni, initially when the yr 1 foundation modules consisted of virtually the whole A level syllabus and were being taught in 1 semester, i thought i would faint during the lectures.
But i survived.
in year 2, when there was the technical project and presentation in front of the tutorial class, i thought it was at least 10x worse than pw because we had much lesser time to prepare.
Thankfully it went well.
in year 3, i thought i could never stay employed in a company for more than a month because i would have gotten sick of working.
surprisingly, in 8 months, i did not detest the work engineers do and actually thought it was cool.
in year 4, i thought i wouldn't be able to manage the hectic normal lessons+fyp+tuition workload, as it meant having to stay back till late in the lab, not to mention the long travelling time i had to endure.
But i did manage to do it for a year.

But of course, all these wouldn't be possible without a supportive environment, as well as family and friends.
And, to get through tough circumstances, many a times I've relied on my religious faith.

I have always believed that our past experiences shape us, including our beliefs and thoughts.
Each and every challenge in life is an opportunity for us to change for the better and emerge stronger in our mentality.
Yes, it might be tough when you are confronted with a challenge or difficulty.
It might seems that the whole world is against you and as if the world crashed on you.
You'll feel the worst you've ever felt.
But if you never pick up the pieces or remove that roadblock on your path, you can never proceed on.
Once a difficulty has been overcomed, when you look back next time, you'll be smiling...thinking how ridiculously small the problem actually was.

convocation is overated.
everyone else is excited over it.
except me.

//For a friend//

朋友之间的利用有底限，朋友互相的扶持无极限

there is only so much you can help someone,
the rest is up to them to figure it out.

unlike science or maths, there are many things in life with grey areas.
or should i say, in imbalance.
what is friendship?
the extent which you are willing to go for a friend and the extent your friend is willing to go for you, is definitely different in the eyes of both you and your friend.
some people befriend others with just a few words.
others do not consider you a friend unless you have been through much with them.
some people pay much consideration and tolerance towards their friends
while others go all out to take advantage of their friends.

sometimes, we ought to protect our own interest if the need arise.
it's better to say certain things outright than harbour unhappiness in your heart,
unless you can wholeheartedly accept them, but being human, it's difficult.
when the things that you do for a friend becomes a sword that cuts backwards,
you need to stop hurting yourself.
the stronger she is, the weaker you'll seem.
unless you have the strong mentality to counter it,
it's better to back off for the time being.

It's time to regain your confidence.
So that you will emerge stronger in your mindset.

Life is like a rat race; we all run in different paths.
if you happen to run in the same path as someone else,
treat it like a boardgame.
There is more than 1 way to win,
if you are willing, there can be no clash of interest
and nobody knows for sure who will win,
until the final piece is in place.

//when simple wishes are hard to fulfil//

当梦想一次一次被打碎，希望一次一次破碎时，回头问自己到底在坚持什么。。。


Some people make the transition faster than others, some cautiously approach it.
Some people dive into it without thinking where the future lies for them, others tediously plan a long road only to find themselves losing track.
A career is for life, there may be trial and error, doors might shut you out but at the same time new doors may open unknowingly, I guess that's the beauty of it. Its unpredictable characteristic.
A company is basically an organization of people, the mystifying thing is that these people ought to have different skills or individual qualities that make each of them unique, yet it is required that they are able to work together peacefully and cooperatively.
The irony of things go further into the specifics.
An engineer is expected to follow all the rules and regulations, fulfil customer requirements and specifications, yet also able to think out of the box to resolve issues and problems in a simplest, most efficient manner.
Another irony?
A manager needs to ensure the lowest cost for the company and the highest value for the customer.
Having said all that, it seems work is all about overcoming challenges and pushing oneself further.

Job interviews are akin to the story of the blind describing an elephant by touching it, with the roles of the interviewer and interviewee being exchangeable.
you might just happen to touch the part that's pleasant (perhaps the flappy ears) or the part which is unpleasant (the sharp tusks).
Gut feeling plays a major role, even though we know how 'accurate' it usually is.

Anyway, leading the life of a 无业游民 was a welcome break from all the mugging that was done during the past 16 years.
Even though I cannot say that I was the most conscientious student but at the very least, it wasn't easy to go through the whole education process.
If given a choice, I would want to change some parts of 'history' to make it more ideal but i guess that's life, some things you can't just undo it with a wave of your wand.

Everyone has a vision of a perfect life, some people can easily achieve it, some just have to make more effort.


用别人的欢乐来娱乐自己，用虚拟的感动来安慰自己，茫然的问自己存在的意义。
Sigh. It's time to get out of this kind of life and pursue that unreachable vision.

// An end and a start //

Grad trip completed.
Degree completed!!!!!

Happy that I managed to get a decent grade for my fyp.
One year of toiling in the lab till late, frantic stringing of words into a presentable report, desperate attempts to make the presentation interesting did not go to waste.
I made it!

On the other hand, I did not do well for my psycho module.
As the module level became higher, my grade became lower.
I suppose that's expected since there would be stiffer competition from year 3 and 4 psych majors.
What to do, just got to comfort myself with that thought.

From the moment I decided to major in engineering I should have already given up thoughts of doing anything related to psychology or social sciences, for that matter.
It should just remain as an interest.

开始认清自己最糟的缺点。。就是逃避。

// last exam down. FINALLY! //

No, not totally relieved yet, there's still the FINAL presentation on Monday.
I still have to work hard for it cuz I'm just not a natural presenter.
Left with 2 days to prepare.
Hope everything goes ok!

Heard some coursemates saying they will miss the exam hall.
No, I definitely will not.
That place is just a place of horror to me, too glad to get out anytime.
I'm just crossing my fingers for no freak exam results!!

Anyway, just some random thoughts.
Even though I'd be glad to be free from the claws of examinations, it seems like many things would change after graduation.
As students, there'll be a second chance to recoup from the mistake, or at least, the price you need to pay for your mistakes is comparatively lesser.
In the real world, there seems to be no room for making mistakes or errors.
Every single error counts against you and probably will remain with you for life.
Even if you were simply careless or truly repentant, who will actually believe in you?
They would rather trust someone with no black mark in their record.
Maybe I'm just pessimistic but the real world seems to me to be that cruel.
Plus, ethics and morals in the real world is not black and white, but of shades of grey.
The instinct to survive can even erode moral values and ethics.
Even though I believe one should be true to himself/herself, make decisions with the fundamental guidelines and trust one's own instinct, such an approach might not work.
Being true to yourself could offend others unwittingly.
Basing decisions on fundamental moral considerations is probably naive.
One's instinct might not be trustworthy, what with all the 'external noises' that might disrupt or mislead one's thoughts.
Maybe it's not so complicated.
Maybe I worry too much.

//restless//

catching the GE results has disrupted my sleep routine.
i am still fully awake, super restless, dying to slack but have to prepare my presentation slides for tmr's dry run.

haiz, maybe i shouldn't have requested for one.
the purpose is just to force myself to do up 80% of the slides so that I will not panic during the weekend after exams.
sigh, why must they put presentations after exams?

can't even breathe a sigh of relief after the exams.
having to do the slides during exam period is crazy.
and it provides me an excuse to slack because i'm right in front of the com.

the weather isn't helping.
argh.

// an exciting day tmr //

will a change come true?
or will may 8 be business as usual?
tmr's the day.

and so it happen to be the day of my first paper.


有些事情，看开了，就得到解脱。
不管是暂时的，还是永远的，
只要在这一刻，开心就好。

// some peace before the storm //

Some years ago, I always wondered why Singaporeans want to migrate to another country.
As I remember it, many of them would say life here is too stressful and fast-paced.
Well, at that time, the naive me didn't realise the reality of the situation.
Now, I can finally empathise with their feelings.

Education, which has occupied a large part of my life, is one area that sparked off this realisation.
Having spent years listening to teachers always struggling to 'catch up' with the syllabus, having been through countless cramming sessions (just to get those useless theories inside my head), it serves some sort of justification to those common complaints.

Why do kids hate exams so much?
Why do parents spend so much on getting the best tutor for their children?
At each stage of the education system, there is the most - feared national examination.
Some have liken it to a war.
Some have questioned the rationality of it.
Is it justified to judge the amount and depth of learning of a student simply by a one-off examination?
I can't help but think that those students who got eliminated in the process could have gotten a chance to proceed on if they had been given more liberty in terms of learning pace.
No doubt Singapore has to progress. Society and standard of living has to improve.
But if it's at the expense of the mental and psychological wellness of young students, I would think it's a high cost.
Anyway, the focus on academic success tend to overshadow other aspects, like moral ethics.
Students nowadays might be well-versed in many subjects, with credit going to the education system, but are their moral compasses pointing in the correct direction?

Maybe it's just me.
Sometimes I just feel everything is proceeding at a very fast pace.
There is no time to delve deeper into the stuff we learn, no time to reflect.
So many things to cope with, so little time.
This has inculcated a habit of 'just learn those that will be tested' such that some people who chose to learn more are at a disadvantage, especially if those who possess an average intelligence.
It just seems that only the more gifted can have the privilege to learn more than is required while those will average intelligence are expected to learn just what is required, especially if they want to get a decent grade.

Anyway, it is now the period before exams.
the peace before the storm.
the time when i cannot feel more relieved.
with fyp out of sight (for now), it's time to take things slow.
i've realised that learning at my own pace is the most enjoyable thing.
however, it's very much slower than the rate we are supposed to go.
hence, the inevitable last minute cramming just before the exams.

// dream interpretation//

Teeth are used to bite, tear, chew or gnaw.
in this regard, teeth symbolizes power.
And the loss of teeth in your dream maybe from a sense of powerless.
Are you lacking power in current situation?
Perhaps you are having difficulties expressing yourself or getting your point across.
You feel frustrated when your voice is not being heard.
You may be experiencing feelings of inferiority and a lack of self-confidence in some situation or relationship in your life.
This dream is an indication that you need to be more assertive and believe in the importance of what you say.
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dreaming about falling teeth is a vivid nightmare.
ugly, yellow shrunken tooth falling out one-by-one.
you try to stop the rest from falling out but can't.
you can't control it.
you feel powerless.

//nothing's definite//

seems like i need to convince myself that each and every small step i take is towards clearing the mountain-high pile of work i've owed.

one step taken is one step forward.
not backward.
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// luck//
sometimes you feel lucky to get into a train just in time.
sometimes you feel unlucky cuz you just missed a train.
sometimes you feel heaven must be playing a joke on you when you did not miss any bus at all but still had to wait a long time for one.

sometimes you feel irritated when you were rushing home and yet someone had decided to block the right hand path (of the escalator)
but you'd definitely feel lucky that you were slowed down when lightning just struck 3 steps in front of you.
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//getting over it//
avoidance is moving forward,
not backward.
i will do better next time.
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// the truth//
sometimes, knowing the truth about yourself might not be the best thing.
esp if you can't cope with the truth.
knowing one's own strengths might lead one to be overconfident or arrogant.
knowing one's own weaknesses is detrimental to one's self-esteem.
perhaps i'm just not mature enough to handle it.
so much so that i have lost the ability to paint the facade of self-confidence,
that had once fooled many.

everybody has been too kind to me. why do i feel that? have i been too unkind to myself? yet, i'm doubting their kindness because of doubts in myself. 我一直在问自己，我有那个能耐吗？ whatever the case, even though i lack intrinsic motivation, i'm going to draw strength externally, from their encouragement. i might fail myself but i cannot fail them. 无论结果，我不能辜负他们的期望，一定要努力到最后，最后。

//短暂的努力// I can't sustain my efforts to work hard! Sometimes I think nothing can save me alr. At this time, I ought to be thinking about where I want to go next. So my mentor ask, what's next after NTU? Truth be told, I'm not sure. I have alr postponed the decision for 6 years. Friends who went to poly have alr chosen their career path ages ago. Even those who went JC had an inkling of the ultimate goal they were working towards, sure, in the course of these 6 yrs, their goal might have changed. But at least they had one. Friends whom, like me, had no idea what they want, have now found their calling. I seemed to be the last person in the graduating batch who is still lost. Now that I realise it, I only have two options. Option 1: Keep applying for jobs of any nature, as long as they want my degree and I don't mind the job Option 2: Wait till after graduation, take a break to think of what's next. Of course, option 2 seems like ideal. Since a job/career is for life, it is a major decision that warrants serious consideration. But the disadv is that I might be stuck with nothing once the hiring period hits off-peak. Or even worse, I still cannot make up mind. Dear me, what shall I do. Now, I totally understand how one of my friend (who grad last yr) feels. And my escapism streak struck again. I understand the psychological theory behind it but I can't even cure myself. Such a lousy, ill-disciplined lazy bum, I am. Maybe I should see a shrink. Then, I keep thinking of my strengths... to be truthful to myself I have none. The things I like to do... imagining things, dreaming about crazy ideas, observing people, spewing sarcasm and blogging. It doesn't even fit any type of job. Sometimes, I dream too much. So much so that I've kind of lost touch with reality. I've lost common sense. I've lost the ability to listen to people. I've lost the trust in myself. I dunno what's my purpose in life. I'm hanging on because of family and friends. Never for myself. I'm driven by deadlines and routines. Not beacause of passion. And I think, that's pathetic, right? I dunno, the so-called interest that I have, did it come right from the heart, or i convinced myself that it is. It has been almost a year, and when I took out those stuff I wrote, I felt utterly useless. I have not changed a single bit. I had cleanly forgotten those advice. I have not taken a single action/step to change for the better. I'm still the lamb/ the rabbit/ the weakling. Waiting to be devoured by the fitter lot. I think, my life is in disarray. And I'm the one who caused it to become like that.

It's soon gonna be over. Hope I can make it through!!! What with a million things to do. A zillion lectures and tutorials to catch up. I need some intrinsic motivation. It's the final turn. Do it or break it. Arghh I cannot afford to slack anymore, my classmates were appalled when I revealed the amount of lectures and tutorials I have to catch up. All thanks to fyp. Out of 5 modulus I have for examination this semester, there are already 2 which I have absolutely, 100% no idea what had been taught. Those two modules were practically 'non-existent' (at least in my mind) since the beginning of the semester as I had 'borrowed' the time to do my fyp. Now, it's payback time. Utterly bitter, gruelling payback time. 40 days to the ULTIMATE freedom. less than a month to start of exams. now, that's some form motivation or you might say...some reason for panic! =S

i guess the worst is over... i guess...

i deserved it. for slacking too much. i just hope i can make it through. if i don't, it'll be my own fault. no one else to blame.

幸福的定义对每个人不同。而且还会随时间和场合改变。
在九级大地震和海啸发生前， 对日本人而言，幸福的来源或许就是拥有最新颖的科技产品，在科技上有什么突破。
但现在，对流离失所的他们而言，幸福就是能再重返家园，回到自己的安乐窝。
可想而知，那是不可能的。反而，寒冷的气候和电源短缺雪上加霜。
也许，人唯有在艰难时，才领悟，其实幸福就是那么简单。
但是，当人们每天都处于那所为“简单幸福”的状态时却不从觉得幸福，反而可能有许多埋怨。

对我而言，幸福就是。。。拿着一个饭盒，坐在电视机前，什么都不想，毫无烦恼忧虑的尽情享受电视节目。

简单吧？

//solitary mutter//

at the end of the day, you realise that the only person on earth that can really help you is yourself.
yet, it is the most difficult task ever.
yes it sounds ironic.
after all, it is you who know your own limits, your preferences, your temperament.

It is precisely because of the fact it is only you who have a chance at solving the actual problem that it is difficult.
Especially if you are a weakling.

// some form of respite //

It's finally recess week.

Ok, so I've rather slack the week before, cuz my lab meeting presentation was finally over on 4 Mar!

Then my cousin and cousin-in-law came over to stay at my house as they wanted to tour Sg over the weekend.

Anyway, becuz of the concert I was due to go, I didn't really bring them around.

In spite of this, they had no problem finding their way in Sg with the directions I gave them.

Anyway, my cousin-in-law even bought a coach handbag from ion and my parents were passing some remarks about being materialistic.

To the working class, it seems like owning something branded is a must, no?

But to the older generation it just seems like frittering away hard-earned money.

Anyway, I dun tink we are in a position to comment.

After all, one spends his/her money on whatever he/she deems fit, which others might not agree on..but it's none of their business anyway.

Back to the concert, even though I was the one who wanted to go for JJ's concert, I think my sis is more excited than me. She listened to his songs non-stop a few days before the concert haha.

My mum thought I would have insomnia after the concert.

Fat hope, I was extremely exhausted from tutoring and also preparing for my presentation a few days earlier.

Smudge - The fashion line founded by JJ


Waiting in anticipation!

The show!

It was a 3hr show and according to some sources he sang 35 songs.

Well, i think it was quite a mad rush, yet he didn't sing some of the songs I hoped he would.

Most of the songs were upbeat numbers where he had to dance and sing simultaneously like a energy bunny.

Though his vocals were somewhat compromised due to the multi-tasking, it was still very good, without missing a note or beat.

The only thing was that the fast and loud music kind of overpowered his voice.

And he got super duper high when Jam Hsiao appeared and they sang Michael Jackson's Black or White.

Of course neither could be compared to the great MJ but it showed the rocker side of him.

The ballads, on the other hand, were flawless and touching.

In my opinion, his piano performance was rather short but it was a highlight as he sang 'Home' and the screen flickered to Kit Chan, who stood up and applauded him.

Cool and sleek during dance numbers, warm and relaxed on the piano, funny and hyper with Jam Hsiao, emotional and touching during ballads.

Different faces of JJ, bright lights, fireworks, coupled with outrageous costumes typical that of Chinese musicians and heartfelt words of thanks towards his family, mentors, colleagues and fans.

It was definitely worth watching.

P.S It was quite surprising to see, with the exception of a few rows, most of the people sitting near us were actually some older people who looks to be in their mid to late 30s.

Also, Ang Junyang and Candyce were just a row away from us.

//OVERWHELMED//

I hope I can pull through.
There is tons to do.

Next week is a terribly busy week.
Experiments due.
Cell culture.
Engineers & Society meeting
Psych class debate meeting
Psych research project meeting
Visiting Prof meeting
2 days of career fair.

-FAINTS-

Let me see if I still have time to attend lectures and tutorials. =/

What's making it worse is the need to prepare some research material for the meetings.
I don't even have time to do my fyp lit rev,
start writing my fyp report,
or do my presentation slides.
Much less to research on some space shuttle disaster 20-odd years ago
or on some psychology model and findings.

Don't get me wrong, I am enjoying my psychology module.
One of our class assignment was to take the Myer-Briggs Type Indicator test and the Big 5 personality test.
Well, to me it's interesting.
I realise I am still an INPF at heart.
Introverted iNtuitive Perceiving Feeling.
But I have become more of a Thinking type than Perceiving type after entering uni.
It's the influence from all those engineering courses I presume.
At times, I actually get INTP instead.
Anyway, I'm side-tracking already.
The point is I have to read psychology journal articles for the project!
Not again.
I had a horrible experience with writing a psych lit rev previously.
Sure, journal articles across different disciplines definitely would have some similarities.
Trust me, those similarities ends at the abstract and intro section.
That's all.
I could barely comprehend their methods section, and their results and discussion sections looks like greek to me.

-BOO-

Sometimes I think I have no common sense.
Ok, actually most of the time.
I misinterpret my mentor's verbal instructions.
I couldn't catch up with her fast pace.
The consequence?
Countless times of re-doing experiments.

-DOUBLE BOOS-

//The new year question: How to start?//

For the past few days since 1st Jan, I've been searching through my mind.
Searching for new year resolutions I can make.
Sadly, I found none.

What do I hope to achieve this year?
I have no idea.
I think 'hope' is the best word to describe this especially if you know you wouldn't be able to accomplish the resolutions you made.
At the beginning of every year most people are fresh and invigorated, the stipulated public holidays undoubtedly playing a part.
More so, i believe, however, is due to the works of the mind.
A new year presents new hopes, new wishes, new challenges, as the cliche goes.
As I see bright and fresh faces around, I knew many are still holding on to the cliche mindset.
I was one of those last year, last last year, and many many years before.
This year, an entrance to the new year or new decade, however, has greatly diminished in its significance to me.
It's just another day when the clock struck twelve, a time that signals near bedtime.
Maybe, just for a second I feel blessed and grateful for my family and friends to enter the new year.
2011.
I can't help but feel it's just another number, another date.

All the hopes we have, the resolutions we set, january sets off positive thoughts in the mind, giving invisible strength to the minds of people, making them believe they can accomplish whatever they wished.

If that is so, then what is reality?